It's not really, since there are fewer gay people than there are straight people, and you still have to find someone who clicks with you out of that small supply of options. Also, lesbian dating apps are full of straight men setting their gender to "female" so they can hit on lesbians and couples trying to trick lesbians into having threesomes with them...
Maybe the men are referring to how you would do the act?
I mean before when I wasn't well versed in sex in general, I did think that too.
How would you even have sex? Don't you need a stick and a hole?
I know now, but that would explain the men's statements.
@binarysoap Nope, I'm talking about the men who are confused by lesbianism existing at all. Like, to the point of being unable to accept that it's real.
I just read a review for a story where a guy was insisting it was impossible for a woman who was transmigrated into a male body to feel attracted to her wife, and was criticising the writer for "inconsistency".
@binarysoap That's true~! Still, there are guys like that who don't seem to be intentionally refusing it, they just seem to struggle to understand that it's real. I just don't understand how you get to be that confused about life, though.
If someone grows up with religion and that religion isolates them from the rest of the world, stuff like gays and lesbians could be really confusing or revolting to them.
It don't have to be religion but really anything that isolates them.