We all are a part of a group with a single focal point, IE writing and the forums. Basically a cult but instead of everyone being held to some form of supernatural idea, we fell in love and married ourselves off. Thus, a harem.
They already recognize Greyblob as a tsundure, Sailus as the Russian that keeps things simple, gogo has good music taste, Lloyd is the troll, K5 is the group mom, Hans is the artist, agentt is the thigh lover, and cupcake is special.