Though no one cares about me, I can still write whatever I want here(without breaking the rules). And I decided to leave this forum. It was a fresh experience for me, but with the topics that I'm most interested in, being actively banned, I guess there is nothing left for me to do here. Anyone who managed to read this till the end, have a nice day and goodbye.
Don't harrass her too hard though, because some people feel deeply personal about what skill to pick up or drop.
Sometimes being good at something doesn't mean you'll enjoy doing it. Since life is a marathon, there will be an endless amount of doors you'll choose to close for something else (including stuff you were good at).