Am I the only one who is aware of these things?

[Deleted member 42060]

1. So you hear people say that mistakes are lessons, but what about killing and raping? Are killing and raping lessons too? Someone would even argue: “Killing and raping are not mistakes!” Well, according to the dictionary, a mistake is “a wrong action or statement proceeding from faulty judgment, inadequate knowledge, or inattention.” Technically, they are mistakes—it is just that people like to have this weird, condescending, all-knowing awareness. A serial killer or rapist cannot just say “I am human, and I make mistakes.” I mean, this serial killer has done some fucked-up things, and he has no right to say “I am not perfect.” Actually, people have been seeing the phrase “I am human, and I make mistakes” as an excuse now, which is sad.​
2. Not giving a fuck is a good thing, right? Sure, but there are limits to it. You cannot just give a fuck and offend people at the same time. You can at least try your best not to offend people, but when your “not-giving-a-fuck”-ness is getting beyond common sense, then no, stop acting like that. But this actually annoys me as a person who is interested in not giving a fuck since society always forces you to feel something like shame or guilt, and when society notices that you do not give a fuck, they will say, “Oh, no. Defense mechanism! Defense mechanism! Copium! Copium!” Copium is the most annoying term ever. Who the fuck invented that word?​
3. Moral superiority. I have to be honest—it annoys me when I see people overly criticizing content creators who have either said the N-word or disrespected a dead man in a suicide forest like they feel morally superior. I mean, sure, disrespecting a corpse is objectively bad, but you will probably do the same in his position. Stop with the moral superiority; you are not better than the others (and now I am criticizing everyone, how hypocritical of me). I already hate this whole thing about cancel culture, especially when it goes overboard.​
4. People love to equalize the weight between sexes or genders. For example: “So you are close with someone, right? What if HE or SHE rapes you?” I can literally see that you are forcibly trying to say that both men and women can rape. In my opinion, though, men can physically rape, but women cannot. Women can only psychologically rape. No questions asked. (Whoopsie! That is probably something an overly aware incel would say!) I will be less annoyed if you just use “THEY” instead of using “HE or SHE” like you are making them forcibly equal or something.​
5. Politics and religion are two things why the world is filled with darkness. I hate politics, and I am not a fan of religion—these two always cause problems, even though both are giving “respite” to humanity. When ideals clash against each other, conflict transpires. Socialism versus Communism. Muslim versus Christianity. And because of these ideals clashing, many people actually die from it. (And many people will say I am ignoring the good side of it.)​

That is all I have to say.​

 

[BlackKnightX]

1. Of course, a rapist or a murderer has every right to say, “I’m a human, and I can make mistakes.” Of course, they can say that. Though, that doesn’t mean that they don’t have to face any consequences. Everyone makes mistakes and has to face the consequences—in some form or the others. You reap what you sow, as the saying goes.

2. Not giving a fuck doesn’t mean that you don’t care about others. A good person is the one who “truly” cares about others. Not giving a fuck is just a way to gain self-confidence. It means “don’t give a fuck what others think about you” not “I’m gonna do whatever the fuck I want even if it hurts somebody because I don’t give a fuck.”

3. I agree with you on this one, but once again, everyone is different. We have different beliefs, different ways of living, different upbringings, different societies, and different cultures. A very understanding person might not like something base on their belief system, but they might not express it. Or they might say, “I don’t like this shit at all. No, I fucking hate it! But… I understand the appeal.” See what I mean? People are different, that’s the reality. It’s not black and white. I’d say, if you meet someone that will “never” appreciate you, then don’t beat yourself up for it. It’s not your fault, nor is it theirs. Just different opinions. If it ain’t right, then it ain’t right. Just focus on “what’s right for you” is more than enough.

4. Similar to the last one, everyone has their own beliefs, upbringings, and experiences. Usually, people who are sexist are those who have experienced some bad shit from the opposite sex in the past. A woman-hater might have been rejected before in the past, thus the hatred. A man-hater might have experienced some traumatic events as well. It’s all about generalization: “If this guy I used to know was like that, then I guess every guys in the whole fucking world are like that as well.” It’s understandable, just unfortunate. You can change their beliefs and their opinions if you really try hard enough and know exactly what you’re doing, but do you really want do that? Like I said, if it ain’t right, then don’t try to make it right. Normally if I meet this kind of people, I would just be understanding about it. “No offense taken, lady, as long as you don’t step through the boundary.”

5. Nothing to argue here. uwu~