How lonely are you.How many of you have never had a girlfriend or good friends. Can vote more than once

[someonesomeguy]

Give one vote for romantic partner.
Give other vote for friends.
One for gender .
Last one is for do you want them or you are satisfied

This is actually a pretty good question to know what the average is.
And also this is good place for survey than discord.


This actually would have been more convenient if it had option to split based on age or gender but oh well.

 

[Aaky]

All those lonely people... Here have a hug *hug*

I'll be your friend *evil smile intensifies*

 

[CupcakeNinja]

I've had too few friends and too many girlfriends. And I think the latter says a lot about me being unfit for committed romantic relationships. As for the former, well...I'm kinda a dick to my friends so I guess that's why :P

But thats how you know they REALLY like you. When you're a dick but they stay with you anyway.

 

[minacia]

What if you're married to someone but your relationship isn't perfect? xD

 

[KiraMinoru]

Do imaginary friends count?

With that long list is I’m surprised that isn’t an option on there.

 

[DubstheDuke]

I mean would an online relationship count? Cause no, I've never had any relationships besides those.

 

[Horizon42]

Never really cared to get a girlfriend. Doesn't mean I haven't had 1 or 2 crushes, but I quell my emotions pretty quick. I'll probably stay alone for a while until I can find someone self conscious, able/willing to change or adapt, and posseses some amount of selflessness or apathy for themselves. Basically a lazy psychopath or sociopath. Either one will do. The consequences of marriage and/or having children is too damaging if the relationship ever soured.

 

[Daitengu]

I'm a 98% hermit introvert. I don't even game with people in mmos. If I could pick a different species to be, I'd go golem. Just so I don't have to eat or deal with things like heat/cold, and various body functions. What about sex? Bitch I'm a hermit. If I didn't have a high sex drive making me want to fap, I wouldn't even bother.

 

[Michuyu]

Oh! interesting that there are almost an equal amount of girls and boys here, according to the survey. xD

Anyway, I'm like 50% lonely. I say this cause I have a freaking big family living at home. (4 sisters, 1 brother inlaw, 2 brothers, mom, me) We don't have a big house either lol. Still, the emotional support isn't really there even though it's implied. This is the same for my friends. x_x It's hard wanting to be alone but not alone at the same time.

 

[K5Rakitan]

I don't believe that "perfect" exists in friends or romantic partners. Different friends and romantic partners understand different things about me. Also, where's the option for being polyamorous?

 

[ArcadiaBlade]

I don't have any relationship with anyone other than my own family(which we haven't had a bloodbath as of now) but i finally gave up on those wishful thinking that i'll have them so i prefer to be a person who mostly wants to be alone now and its kinda been nice.

 

[Pujimaki]

In my country, I'm describe as torpe( a shy man who can't confess his love to a girl because he thinks that he might just be rejected .) My friends always tease me about it but I can't do anything about it, I'm getting nervous whenever the girl I like is close to me. So yeah, I'm still single and I think I'll let it be. I'm not desperate to find one. I'm happy and contented.

 

[Aaky]

What if you're married to someone but your relationship isn't perfect? xD

F

 

[someonesomeguy]

Well I may be lonely but atleast I was able to integrate 1/x myself without any proofs. Though I think last step might have been cheating.
1/x integrated is 10^5*x^(10^-5) .
Now I was thinking how you can get such a big number if actual answer ln x .
Turns out you can decrease any constant so.
10^5*x^(10^-5)-10^5


I still don't know definition of log of a number


Also online friends are pretty cool.
You just need someone to talk to anyway

 

[someonesomeguy]

I'm a 98% hermit introvert. I don't even game with people in mmos. If I could pick a different species to be, I'd go golem. Just so I don't have to eat or deal with things like heat/cold, and various body functions. What about sex? Bitch I'm a hermit. If I didn't have a high sex drive making me want to fap, I wouldn't even bother.

I also will second being golem for immortality. Friends are nice but eternal life is eternal. Seriously no disease no food needed absolute freedom. That's perfect

 

[High-in-the-skys]

Just gonna add this in...
I actually felt confused at first since I have the confidence to make friends but I only have few but loyal ones. Turns out you might not understand yourself much if you found incongruity in your behaviour.

Taking personality test helped understand why I have few friends. It's not that I am really introvert (though I am) but I unconciously avoid people with bright red flags on them (I unconciously read their intentions).

Search on google for '16 personalities' and you can try to find out why you're a jerk

 

[EternalSunset0]

Single and I plan to stay that way. I did have crushes and all, and I actually get along with some of them and talk like regular buddies, but I have no intention of actually locking myself into a relationship.

That being said, most of the people I consider friends are more like gaming buddies. We hang out, eat out, play video and card games, talk about weeb stuff, but things very rarely go deeper than those. So I think I have a lot of "interest buddies" both online and irl. The number drastically drops when it comes to people whom I can completely trust with more personal things or whom I can expect to have my back (and vise versa)

 

[Deleted member 45782]

I also will second being golem for immortality. Friends are nice but eternal life is eternal. Seriously no disease no food needed absolute freedom. That's perfect

Wouldn't that get boring and depressing though? Eventually you see fam or loved ones die. And even if you don't have anyone, eventually the world you knew will change, and it'll always be changing and you're the only one that still stay the same after centuries. whether it falls or it goes up with so many changes and you staying the same...won't that make you feel more alone, knowing you're one out of (who knows how many) never aging while everyone else leaves at some point.
-hmm great pondering story idea for an immortal who sees everyone else moving past by him and is possibly sick of immortality...

even if immortality is cool esp to learn all the interesting things out there...longevity wholeheartedly agree thu

 

[someonesomeguy]

Wouldn't that get boring and depressing though? Eventually you see fam or loved ones die. And even if you don't have anyone, eventually the world you knew will change, and it'll always be changing and you're the only one that still stay the same after centuries. whether it falls or it goes up with so many changes and you staying the same...won't that make you feel more alone, knowing you're one out of (who knows how many) never aging while everyone else leaves at some point.
-hmm great pondering story idea for an immortal who sees everyone else moving past by him and is possibly sick of immortality...

even if immortality is cool esp to learn all the interesting things out there...longevity wholeheartedly agree thu

It's better than dead. Lonliness wont be a too big of a problem a good trade. mind forgets things in eternal life anyway it doesn't get stale. Even if you won't it still doesn't get stale.
And i am immortal anyway I would just make an AI. world.excute(me)
Immortality is lots of fun way better than being dead for all eternity.
Suffering sadness goes away eventually a person will just stop giving a fuck but death is eternal

 

[EternalSunset0]

Just gonna add this in...
I actually felt confused at first since I have the confidence to make friends but I only have few but loyal ones. Turns out you might not understand yourself much if you found incongruity in your behaviour.

Taking personality test helped understand why I have few friends. It's not that I am really introvert (though I am) but I unconciously avoid people with bright red flags on them (I unconciously read their intentions).

Search on google for '16 personalities' and you can try to find out why you're a jerk

Thanks for the test. I had fun taking it. I love quizzes like that and they're generally consistent with results.