Ace_Arriande
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Male, in-between. I'm fine with other people finding comfort in labels, but labels are a massive meme to me. I don't really care if somebody calls me a girl, or non-binary, or whatever else they want. In regards to myself, they're all equally worthless. Going by male is just how I was raised and what's the least annoying thing to do plus it's what all paperwork stuff is in. But if somebody made it a global law tomorrow and they said, "Boom, gender is now gone and we no longer associate certain things with masculinity or femininity," then I would be 100% down for that. That aside, traditionally speaking, I'm more into "masculine" things, but fuck everything about calling a specific hobby or lifestyle choice masculine. I don't see muscular people and think they're masculine for it just as I don't see anybody wearing makeup and dresses as feminine for it. People are just people. But again, if people find comfort in applying labels and traditional roles to themselves, I won't judge nor shame them for it.
Basically this.I'm nonbinary but moderately masculine. By that, I mean I was born male, pass as male, and have a reasonably masculine body type. And yet I feel absolutely zero connection to masculinity, and no dysphoria from my body ether... like I present how I present just because of inertia, and I'd be just as happy (and just as dysfunctional) if I looked like somebody else. I'm pretty sure I'd be perfectly ok with almost any body I got assigned to, as long as it worked well enough for me to do the things I like.