I really do feel like I'm rubbing my own horn here but
Black Witch from Another World mostly checks your boxes XD
It's a genderbent where the guy turns into a girl character he's playing, so you can put a half check on that front. Though he does embraced
certain aspects of his new form ;) you don't list any sexual/gory stuff so I think you're fine with those, (and it gets really gory and sexual at times, plus the MC swears like a sailor.
I agree with Jemina that it's hard making a compelling story without tragedies but luckily it's still pretty earlier in my story so you won't find too many drama for now. No horror too, I still can't comprehend how you would get scared in something that doesn't even have an image XD
No sci-fi since its an isekai fantasy.
The action front... Yeah, I'll admit I'm still honing that but my latest chapter though is a fighting chapter, so there's that. But it's still pretty calm for now with only 2 and a half fights so far XD I'm really more into behind the scenes/political talk where characters are making deals and stuff rather than fighting kind of guy. I really like writing dialogue like that so if you like that then that's great!! ^^
MC is OP. But she (I'll refer him as a girl now) is very cautious and knows about the pitfalls of the isekai tropes (her earth was in the future than it currently is now) so she tries as much as she can to not attract attention and keep her powers a secret.
I've only ever read two Chinese novels. Bringing the Farm to Another World and Release that Witch. Maybe it's my stereotypes against china but I always find them to be cringy so even with the trash of isekai, at least even the worst ones you can still laugh at how stupid they are. So my story is pretty isekai with my own twist and writing style ^^
There's lesbian in my story, but no bl yet XD
I don't really know if my story is funny or not, it's subjective. But it is certainly pretty light hearted and for me is pretty comedic.
Lastly there's magic. Yup! Actually I'm just introducing in the new concepts of my magic. I really don't like the RPG stats thing, so I took the overlord approach and just have game like magic but no menus, screens, health bars, stats and numbers. So yeah xD
Anyway that's enough of my own ego for one comment today so I hope you like it :)