interesting story from IRL that you (and others) might find valuable. To this day, I don't understand the mental state which leads to this dynamic, but long-story short, some of these rape-then-attached stories (which I'll desire to avoid reading) are actually describing a scenario that occurs in real life.
I used to live in a house with like 8 rental rooms. The shower was next to my room. One of the female housemates got raped by her date in the shower. I heard the whole thing. It wasn't super violent, but she submitted while repeatedly saying "no" in a sad voice. I didn't have the bawls to do anything about it. But basically she dated that dirtbag for months thereafter.