Err...honestly, it's the behavior of 'players'. You know, those people who tend to show you kindness just to bait your emotions, then leave you hanging? They do it either for ego boost, or to reserve themselves, should they decide to pursue a relationship with you.
Hence, like your family, I recommend you avoiding and cutting off comms with him. But yes, return the money, so 'no strings attached.'
That's a fuccboy, noona. Don't let him took any advantage of you.
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@Zakuro Oi, I've seen you promote WebkomPh before. Who are you in that site? I'm already there XD
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@Mellohwa I'm not sure. It's only a hunch, but it's based from my observation of students who have similar behavior. So just to be safe, don't let that guy get a foothold on your heart, or you'll regret it.
Besides, no one should be ghosted for nothing. And I don't believe you did something bad to him before; he even entrusted money to you. You don't deserve a person like that.
(Ah, my recent bad experience is coming back...)
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@Zakuro Then you are jjrecio, the illustrator of the current Rambulan poster.
(I've read enough stories to know where this is going.)
None, he had a girlfriend anyway. So I just treated him as a friend... well, a close friend...
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At least, we're safe on that department. In any case, yeah. Return the money and cut off comms. A relationship like that (even for a close friend) is toxic and exhausting.