ElijahRyne
A Hermit that is NOT that Lazy…
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I do not disagree with regecting her out right. If things are how I believed them to be, I might be saving myself from pain. Yet, don’t believe that she will continue a long con. I will disagree with paying for her until I both trust her, and am an adult.Ok, I found it interesting, but the truth is I don't know how to answer that.
I like the point that you say that the protagonist continues to feel something for her, but I think that by now he already knows that that girl is just problems and it is best to leave her behind as soon as possible. That although he feels something for her, he knows that it will be a matter of time before she comes out with another scam.
Anyways the whole notion of paying for is strange to begin with, if we were to continue our relationship we will pay together. If she disagrees we break up.
I don’t know how much the girl is ‘scamy’. Of course she said she was using me for money, but that could just be an angry backlash due to a lack of trust. How do I know if her saying that was her trying to ‘scam’ me into not caring for her.
In case she is trying to scam again, mom and I refuse to buy anything for her.
I did change the fact that I agreed to marriage, I believe instead we should continue dating. I f she does change I might marry her. If she doesn’t change, I would break up with her.
She is only 18, barely even an adult while I am 16. Marriage should be more far off.
Her ‘harem’ if she even had one to begin with is gone. If she begins to build a new one I will first confront her, and if she still continues it I will break up with her. She was seeing others, but I don’t know if they knew of each other.
I will try to, if possible, turn this into a trusting partnership instead of what it was before.
How do I know if she was truly scamming me? How do I know if she will not get better in the future? The only way to live without regrets is to try again, and see for yourself!