Are we not meant to play with each other, and live a game of suspicion and confusion? I honestly, genuinely, don't comprehend why you are upset in IRL/outside of your roleplay, when the goal of the game is to both protect yourself with lies and to cut through others' lies. I cannot verify who others are, so I will lie, and mix it up. There must be lies and confusion and harsh accusations. Not all of them are because someone is trying to bully you. You can be assured of that. Or can you?
Who knows?
Maybe I'm a Vigilante.
Maybe I'm a Veteran.
Maybe I'm a Jester.
Maybe I'm none of the above.
Everything I do both serves a purpose and is what I do to derive enjoyment from this game. I can't explain them, for obvious reasons, but they are purposeful.
The confusion, the judgement, is part of this WILD and CRAZY game.