Have you ever fallen in love at first sight?

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Have you ever felt in love at first sight, or more like, in the span of the first couple of minutes after you met someone? Perhaps you felt infatuated with someone at first sight? I'm curious as I've never fallen in love with anyone, much less falling for someone at first sight.
 

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Love is not so simple I remember my first crush I fell for her pretty quickly Maybe our second or third time meeting I figured out I liked her she always just somehow grabbed my attention which was kinda odd because she was a twin and I didn't have as nearly as much interest in her sister I kept my crush secret for like the next 7 years we didn't have too many conversations we didn't share friend groups or really any interests and when I finally told I liked her she told me she only liked me as a friend I spent a few years hung up on her but looking back I don't think I would say i was ever "in love" with her
 

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Yes. Then when I was rejected I fell out of love.
People don't realize that love is often irrational, and sometimes it is a choice, sometimes it isn't.

Depends on how you define love.
I define it as the willingness to prioritize someone above yourself.
Can be both a choice, and something you have no control over.
 

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Well this a odd one for me, i was never found myself atracted to someone or anyone at first sight. more the other way around, one time a guy approach me and ask me out. I turn them down. Is that bad ? I don't know how thing like this goes, i known about the meme "the worst she can say is no" and that's all my knowledge.
 

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Considering that I was a harem protagonist during my elementary to highschool days, also, I was chasing my cousin for roughly 6 years so it should consider that to be falling in love at first sight.

But I also did encounter multiple sessions where I should have fallen for some girls(one where I saved this girl from bullies in some public pool as a kid, another was someone I didn't know but my family thought that I had a crush on her) though I believe that I never really consider them to be love interest and moreso just a curiousitic mindset I had as a kid.

Hell, I never considered any sort of relationship and wanted to satisfy my curiosity of the world at that time. Like, I was a blank state, wanting to understand my reasons for living and relationship was something I never considered at, unlikely though the present time.

Hell, the reason why I was even stalking my own cousin at that time was mainly trying to define the difference in treatment between me and her and not even loving her at all. It was only till I was older did I understand that I was more unto researching the difference between women and men and not even falling in love at all.

But because of my chaotic mind, I interpreted it as a love interest at some point in the past. Not only that, I never really talked to people to understand love was and interpreted it that way at all.

One thing to consider tho, once you began to feel like you want to be together with another person and felt like you don't want to seperate from one another, that should consider falling in love right?
 

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The first time I fell in love was to the princess of the country. Princess Mira Leonheart. It was mutual love from first sight. Unfortunately the life is cruel and we had different goals. Hers was to get married and give the kingdom a heir. My was to finish my cultivation and deafeat the evil demonlord. So we naturally drifted appart
 

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Attracted to someone? Yes.
True love? No.

Albeit no girl broke into my home yet to wake me up with a cup of coffee and some snuggies. Then I would forgo any questions like how did you come in, who are you, and the rest of the unimportant questions.
 

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Well this an odd one for me, i was never found myself atracted to someone or anyone at first sight. more the other way around, one time a guy approach me and ask me out. I turn them down. Is that bad ? I don't know how thing like this goes, i known about the meme "the worst she can say is no" and that's all my knowledge.
She can humiliate you too, call you a creep and ruin your reputation. Could also accuse you of harassment.

A lot of people don’t realize how dangerous it could potentially be to ask someone out…
 

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Well this a odd one for me, i was never found myself atracted to someone or anyone at first sight. more the other way around, one time a guy approach me and ask me out. I turn them down. Is that bad ? I don't know how thing like this goes, i known about the meme "the worst she can say is no" and that's all my knowledge.
Nope, that was perfect. Props to the guy for asking you, and props to you for saying no. Clean and simple.

The worst thing is to give mixed signals and feed a delusion. I was in that place once and even said no to someone because I was chasing my "true love." This led to nowhere as she wasn't interested in me romantically but also never said no. Thank god for graduation and moving on with life, lol.
 

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My first love Manuela will never abandon me unless i lose my right hand in a car accident
Ps: she is always there for me if i feel the heat. Always ready, never having menstrual cramps or head aches
 
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