Tis true in theory. In reality weight of belief falls heavier on her side. Us dudes are basically fucked
Oh. No. This one works. The problem is, most men are not paranoid enough to preempt their partner and press charges first. But when it happens, yeah, it basically shuts out the other charges. Which is STRANGE, but that's how the legal system works in the US. And by pressing charges first, I mean, YOU GO TO THE COPS AND CLAIM TO HAVE BEEN RAPED.
Which, under the law, if you have sex while you are drunk, then, as a man, you are. It's insane, but that's how the law is, in most states.
It's like how if a woman has sex with an underage boy, it's statutory rape, but the kid still needs to pay child support if she gets pregnant and carries the baby to term. Which under most states involves the parents being forced to pay the child support or the father will be sent to jail.