One of my favorite types of heroic protagonist is the one that focuses on being the unifier and diplomat, helping several different factions and/or supporting characters get over their differences for the greater good.
It's a fun way to mix big picture diplomacy with street level action.
Thing is, this figurehead is nearly always male, with only a few exceptions coming to mind, like in reincarnated as a slime, Rimuru explicitly decides on an agendered identity, and some video game protagonists like Shepard in mass effect, have a similar ethos and can be customized to be masculine or feminine without any major differences to the overall story.
Heck, some harem fantasy stories used the trope to drive both the plot and give narrative agency to the love interests, which was pretty cool.
Not really into the FMM+ reverse harem setup, but any other flavor of romance is cool.
It's a fun way to mix big picture diplomacy with street level action.
Thing is, this figurehead is nearly always male, with only a few exceptions coming to mind, like in reincarnated as a slime, Rimuru explicitly decides on an agendered identity, and some video game protagonists like Shepard in mass effect, have a similar ethos and can be customized to be masculine or feminine without any major differences to the overall story.
Heck, some harem fantasy stories used the trope to drive both the plot and give narrative agency to the love interests, which was pretty cool.
Not really into the FMM+ reverse harem setup, but any other flavor of romance is cool.