How do you add a girl to the MC's harem? To become part of the MC's harem, does the girl need to marry or have sex with the MC first? Someone said it's not harem if the MC only married one girl even if he sleep with all of the girls. Is it true?
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A girl loving the mc. It doesn't matter if the mc doesn't care of them aslong as the girls themselves are attracted towards the mc and the mc accepts them. Just one tip, don't make them 1 dimensional pleaseHow do you add a girl to the MC's harem? To become part of the MC's harem, does the girl need to marry or have sex with the MC first? Someone said it's not harem if the MC only married one girl even if he sleep with all of the girls. Is it true?
brainwashHow do you add a girl to the MC's harem?
No?Is it true?
Depends on what you plan to do with your story. If you're looking for a fast-track way of gaining a harem, enslave them/quantify their feelings (like levels and titles in litRPGs). If you're looking for that 'TLC' (tender, loving care), you'll have to build up your MC's traits to make him likeable. You don't need to jump immediately to sex to make it a harem, really.How do you add a girl to the MC's harem? To become part of the MC's harem, does the girl need to marry or have sex with the MC first? Someone said it's not harem if the MC only married one girl even if he sleep with all of the girls. Is it true?
Psh, not at all. The mc doesn't even need to touch any of the girls, let alone marry them. So long as the audience knows the girls around the mc like him and are trying to get his affection then it's a harem. The best example I can give is sword art online, where it SHOULD just be a romance between Kirito and Asuna, but there's another 3-6 girls (depending on the season) who are obviously crushing on Kirito hanging around them. The harem tag has long degraded to being used to describe a certain atmosphere rather than a complicated relationship status. Now, if you want it to be a GOOD harem, that's an ENTIRELY nother story, but since you seem to be asking about the baseline requirements, the reader's knowledge that the girl likes the mc and wants him is about all you need to add a girl.How do you add a girl to the MC's harem? To become part of the MC's harem, does the girl need to marry or have sex with the MC first? Someone said it's not harem if the MC only married one girl even if he sleep with all of the girls. Is it true?
Requiring that they either marry or have sex are both elements of the original definition of "harem," not the anime definition.How do you add a girl to the MC's harem? To become part of the MC's harem, does the girl need to marry or have sex with the MC first? Someone said it's not harem if the MC only married one girl even if he sleep with all of the girls. Is it true?
Not trying to offend you man by saying the otherwise, but there are a lot of cases in my school where I handled an 'indecisive' student being fought over by girls around him. And I was like, "What the f--k? This boy is still in high school yet girls are willing to fight (and force me to suspend my class) just for him?"Nope, you need to be a proper playboy for that. It's going to be full of conflict and triangle love sheanigans. Or you need to manipulate broken person like slaves, victim, etc. They will possibly accept Densr protagonist with power as their only source of hope.
Yeah, as a teacher, I saw this happen in my school (a public one) a lot of times. The guy's...nice (average grades, and looks, prolly mix in a measure of humor too) is all their reason to run after him. (And vice versa too, with some cases of guys gunning after a girl.It's impossible for females to just love and accept this dense protagonist just because he's nice at the right time.
...The guy's...nice (average grades, and looks, prolly mix in a measure of humor too) is all their reason to run after him.
You can, but this guy won't....
That time I was reincarnated as an ordinary man with a cheat skill that can make me a magnet for girls. Seriously, can I take a break?
... I feel like JP writers have butchered the word...Depends on what you plan to do with your story. If you're looking for a fast-track way of gaining a harem, enslave them/quantify their feelings (like levels and titles in litRPGs). If you're looking for that 'TLC' (tender, loving care), you'll have to build up your MC's traits to make him likeable. You don't need to jump immediately to sex to make it a harem, really.
As for your question:
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To be fair, the age of consent in Japan is 13. Not that I'm not disgusted by it, but the local culture is different.... I feel like JP writers have butchered the word...
To me, harem is:
1. (in former times) the separate part of a Muslim household reserved for wives, concubines, and female servants.
"we were invited into the harem in the rear of the house"
2. the women occupying a harem; the wives (or concubines) of a polygamous man.
"the Maharaja of Delhi had a very fine harem of 18 young and nubile wives"
3. a group of female animals sharing a single mate.
"the dominant bulls gather a harem of anything from two to ten cows"
And the JP writers fucked the thing up by making a bunch of (mostly underaged) girls crowding around a (mostly underaged) boy because target audience.
No sex is allowed because pedophilia. Thus the word was nerfed to hell.
Nah, I'm referring to the pop culture/literature meaning of harem in my thread reply.... I feel like JP writers have butchered the word...
To me, harem is:
1. (in former times) the separate part of a Muslim household reserved for wives, concubines, and female servants.
"we were invited into the harem in the rear of the house"
2. the women occupying a harem; the wives (or concubines) of a polygamous man.
"the Maharaja of Delhi had a very fine harem of 18 young and nubile wives"
3. a group of female animals sharing a single mate.
"the dominant bulls gather a harem of anything from two to ten cows"
And the JP writers fucked the thing up by making a bunch of (mostly underaged) girls crowding around a (mostly underaged) boy because target audience.
No sex is allowed because pedophilia. Thus the word was nerfed to hell.
Oh. I did not know it was that low.To be fair, the age of consent in Japan is 13. Not that I'm not disgusted by it, but the local culture is different.
I understood that. Which is why my post addressed the original meaning of the word "Harem", which stands for one guy having wives, concubines and female servants.Nah, I'm referring to the pop culture/literature meaning of harem in my thread reply.
Coz really, if we talk about historical harem here, I got lots of examples...from the famous harem of the Topkapi Palace to Chinggis Khan's.
Well, as for me? Let people enjoy things, especially fictional stuff.Oh. I did not know it was that low.
So why the ban on child porn again? I mean, hebe-porn is fine for them, so why do they go all justice af?
I understood that. Which is why my post addressed the original meaning of the word "Harem", which stands for one guy having wives, concubines and female servants.
...ffs I just typed Haram instead of Harem. Hmm, why does these two sound so similar...
Because this is my honest opinion, so I will rant on abit. Why harem if the male MC is just going to leave the girls hanging? I thought that the wet dream of underaged boys, other than Super Saiyan, is to have a high body count? I get that this might be something of unhealthy possessive attitude and Makoto from School Days taught us about "fuck around and find out", so most male MCs just stop before popping the seal but still want to hoard. Thus the entire situation becomes a bunch of girls orbiting around the male and no more further steps are taken, the girls are now ornaments that only focus on a single entity while the dense motherfucker continues his way to pull in more satellites.
It feels odd to me at least. To use the word reserved for a guy having intimate relationships with the surrounding women and Japan sterilized the word into an "will they won't they" issue. It also turns into a selection game for said male, like how the ancient chinese emperor would decide to see who he was "befriending" for the night.
This is just my two cent but a friend-more-than-just-friend situation between a male and a bunch of females fumbling for said male's affection is rather off putting. Either you take the step forward and go "only a child would choose one, I pick all!" or just friendzone, strictly friendzone.
Beats me. And they're banning minors (younger than 18 in Japan) from buying porn. It's plain ridiculous. You're allowed to lose your virginity at 13 but you need to wait 5 more years to buy a reference book.Oh. I did not know it was that low.
So why the ban on child porn again? I mean, hebe-porn is fine for them, so why do they go all justice af?