NotaNuffian
This does spark joy.
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I'm a harem hater, for some strange reason, probably influenced by RL crap, so I'm gonna just stand here silently with my "Down with Phony JP Harem" sign.Well, as for me? Let people enjoy things, especially fictional stuff.
(I'm a harem story writer, so my views/opinion are naturally skewed towards it.
IRL though, I hated playboys. Lol)
*shakes head*Beats me. And they're banning minors (younger than 18 in Japan) from buying porn. It's plain ridiculous. You're allowed to lose your virginity at 13 but you need to wait 5 more years to buy a reference book.
I agree with the sentiment. Indecisiveness might be one of the root cause of the stalement and for most issue, people just goes into a hiatus hell state where they hope that time stands still for them to think.Although, hmm...
...if I may try to explain why there are some that led to 'harem' situations irl, I guess it stems from the 'indecisiveness' of the person. I mean, before, I was one. See, in my old teaching days, I was the sample of the 'weird teacher' trope, but I did treat my students kindly. And, as my work got contact with people, it's not a surprise that there are cases where I ended up having a student like me (romantically, that is).
Honestly, I don't know what to do. I'm a freakin' 'young adult' and I don't know how to deal with the feelings of teenagers, at least, if it is directed towards me. So, I just tried to ignore those feelings, just like your typical 'dumbass' harem MC.
Well, most of the time it worked. But there was a time it got worse, I had to hire the services of a lawyer (one of the reasons I also took up law later on).
I for one understand that is not true. In the end, the answer is either a firm "Yes" or "No". There is no leeway for "Maybe" because people only want the absolute.
For me, it cultivated me into a firm and bitter No man. Nothing gets into my life, nothing change, the water still and stale.
As for your case, omg. Because teachers are a crucial yet very easily fucked up job, no matter how much Teacher tag doujinshis and porn are out there, a slip up between student is "ggwp hope for the best OMFG WTF" moment.
Glad that you got out of it.