AuthorsDread
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I'm back again with another challenge for the scribble community. This game will be self-reflective and might be beneficial to your consciousness.
Here goes:
Task 1: Search your mind for the person or persons you have the most hateful experience with.
Task 2: Now try to control your emotions, you're doing good
Task 3: Next, say the most loving and kind thing to that person and watch the memory fades away.
Task 4: Write what you say to that person or persons in comments. (can also share your experience if you want)
My memory (this is real story by the way):
After my mother passed away 3 years ago, my auntie and other family members fly in from overseas and instead of offering condolences, they try to get me arrested, (telling lies to the police) so they could claim property they don't own. I tell you, i've never been so angry in my entire life, i wanted to eliminate these people, so much so that i cry like a baby. This was exactly what they wanted, for me to lash out in violence so that the police would have an excuse to take me to jail, (and we all know the law hates men) i wasn't thinking rational and i was going to give in to anger, But i swear i heard my mother's voice and felt her presence embracing me. I remember what she said, "Control yourself, we're here with you."
Her voice calm me down and instead of attacking these hateful people, i smile and said "I love all of you, so please stop." This was hard for me to say and obviously, my words only agitate them some more, but it was like a realization or something hit them minutes later that made them gave me a break on that day. They waited until after the funeral before they start back their hatefulness. But the point is, sometimes, LOVE can deescalate an impossible situation .
It's your turn to complete the tasks.
Here goes:
Task 1: Search your mind for the person or persons you have the most hateful experience with.
Task 2: Now try to control your emotions, you're doing good
Task 3: Next, say the most loving and kind thing to that person and watch the memory fades away.
Task 4: Write what you say to that person or persons in comments. (can also share your experience if you want)
My memory (this is real story by the way):
After my mother passed away 3 years ago, my auntie and other family members fly in from overseas and instead of offering condolences, they try to get me arrested, (telling lies to the police) so they could claim property they don't own. I tell you, i've never been so angry in my entire life, i wanted to eliminate these people, so much so that i cry like a baby. This was exactly what they wanted, for me to lash out in violence so that the police would have an excuse to take me to jail, (and we all know the law hates men) i wasn't thinking rational and i was going to give in to anger, But i swear i heard my mother's voice and felt her presence embracing me. I remember what she said, "Control yourself, we're here with you."
Her voice calm me down and instead of attacking these hateful people, i smile and said "I love all of you, so please stop." This was hard for me to say and obviously, my words only agitate them some more, but it was like a realization or something hit them minutes later that made them gave me a break on that day. They waited until after the funeral before they start back their hatefulness. But the point is, sometimes, LOVE can deescalate an impossible situation .
It's your turn to complete the tasks.