Sylverius
Old name: Sylphias
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Hey @EternalSunset0, good to see you again!I probably can't speak for girls, but I as a consumer always had the feeling that the "harem" bit of anime isn't there for the relationship. At least I don't react to it that way. It's for marketing mostly, and I feel that some people (I'm very guilty of this) don't even watch those harems for the romance.
I want to see the my favorite tropes thrown in with some unique character development drama here and there, but overall, the main appeal of a "harem" (emphasis on the quotes) for me is not the romance or even making sense of the situation (like your example with bringing home many other girls) but the fact that you'll have a roster of girls to feel attracted to. Eventually, someone would find a waifu or something among the six or so.
For me, it's never about the romance which is why I actually prefer what some anime often do with pushing the actual romance/relationship part aside in favor of a more "traveling/battle companions with many girls" approach. Or maybe not even those actiony parts, but basically in a way that shows like Saekano do it. Then probably just have MC choose one, all, or none once the adventure's completely over.
The main reason why I could put in the "Harem" bit in my story is because of his personality. His personality includes Pure loyalty to his loved ones and he is full of kindness as well to those he chooses to be kind to. In the very far part of the story, I plan on adding more side characters, meaning more guys and more gals, which is where the problem lies. The girls could fall in love with him, which is what I'm saying. Though, I haven't planned out that much in the middle yet, if I were to take down the route of where the girls WILL fall in love with him because of who he is as a person, it might create a waifu war in the future (which I kinda hope people would do, because if they do, then that means my novel is popular enough).
You see, the MC's personality is based off of mine, but a lot more exaggerated. The only thing exaggerated from him, however, is his violence. Nothing else. Now, if a girl who helped you out so damn much says that she likes you, it'd be SUPER HARD to say no to her, since you're already in love with someone else. At least that's in my case.
Though, if I were to put a harem, it'd not just be because they're "waifus", but because the MC actually loves them. But I don't know what to do really, that's why I'm trying to ask the people of scribblehub.
That's the plan chief.Just bringing ten people home out of the blue? No, that would be a very dramatic break-up and a story I'd be telling people for the rest of my life. The nerve of the guy!
Polyamory, even if it's the "one person with many lovers" type, should always be done with full honesty and the genuine consent of everyone involved, otherwise it's just a scumbag cheating.
Even if they came back with 10 people and tried to negotiate a polyamorous relationship before getting with any of the people, their original lover might not want polyamory and might be put off by the knowledge that this is what their lover truly wants.
So, you're opening yourself up to that first relationship ending no matter what.
To ensure a no or low-drama harem, the possibility of a harem happening has to be established long before it begins to form, or before any relationship starts. And everyone involved would have to realise that's where this is heading and accept that.