Whuz FTH? (Edit: why is faith a stat. That shit fluctuates so hard, even in the devout. It's not like some inherent characteristic to a person, and wouldn't leveling it just make you more of a mindless fanatic? A system separate from stats makes more sense, like, 'Favor' where how much Favor you have represents what you've done for your god, and thus how much of their power they let you call upon, judged for your actions rather than your belief. Not from any specific game or anything I just made that up. Probably already exists tho, somewhere.)
Also, trying saying that to all the broody dark assassin/rogue male fantasy types.
Though a point in favor, Dex would make you better at getting your partner off, which is less of a concern for straight men, so...
It's harder to say for women. Women have lower inherent strength then men, so it makes sense that they'd spec into something completely different so they're not just going head to head in a losing fight in that regard, and if we consider as well crafting classes, then dex could be essential for various jobs historically done by women.
So I guess the answer is
If male assassin/thief/rogue, or archer: not gay, unless twink and/or skimpily dressed, in which case, gay
If male other: pretty likely, could just be a crafter or not stereotypically masculine man (but still a straight one)
If female crafter: not gay, unless also specced into strength, in which case gay
If female fighter: gay, babies!
If female gay: very
If enby: gay
If agender: not gay