BenJepheneT
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I think the love will be overwhelmed by the horrors of global warming.@Moonpearl why not shake it up a little and do some tropical summer xmas yuri?
I think the love will be overwhelmed by the horrors of global warming.@Moonpearl why not shake it up a little and do some tropical summer xmas yuri?
@Moonpearl why not shake it up a little and do some tropical summer xmas yuri?
@Moonpearl Maybe I'm boring but I love cold nights and cuddling by the fireside. With a blanket and a drink or maybe just some popcorn as you watch the fire or the snow gently fluttering to the ground beyond the window. You can whisper to your partner about the things you've done together during the year and the memories that you've made.
Here I thought nose-kissing and nuzzling just invited ‘cute!’ feelings and lovey-dovey twitterpating.*has learned today that the nose is an erogenous zone*
Going on vacation (like a ski trip), but end up doing much less sightseeing and much more snuggling. Can be related to getting snowed in, but the spontaneity is nice too.What sort of fluffy Christmas/winter scenes and plots do you like best? Are there any you like best for yuri, or any that you think are overdone or too easy to get wrong?
(Some examples: characters getting snowed in together, mistletoe kisses, getting together at the Christmas party)
I am very late to the party, but I figured that there’s one aspect of scissoring that looks to have gone unmentioned/undermentioned: The *heat*. It’s thrilling, it’s intense, and does feel really very romantic. The heat is like a fiery kiss that only ignites a further passion It probably also helps that usually it’s after being ‘wound up’ for a while.
Although I never came from it directly/by itself (unfortunately, my genitalia was not actually equipped for doing anything besides getting in the way of that wonderful feeling), and she certainly never came from it (not exactly her thing, which wasn’t exsctly my thing, despite being my ‘thing’ ): it still featured in our relationship pretty often, if only because she liked the way it affected me (I loved it), and she could use it to trick my body into responding to her wants. Of course, at some point she started birth control pills for her periods (extremely painful for her)... and sex became basically nonexistent anymore, as her interest in me went from ‘a guy would have probably been better’ to ‘absolute zero’.
TMI/TLDR: for me, back when I was in a relationship with another girl: scissoring was probably second only to being tongued. Not because of its orgasmic potential, but because of the felicity it provided me. ‘Obviously’, fingers are going to be a better route to orgasm than scissoring ever could be, but romantically: scissoring can be *incredible*.
Going on vacation (like a ski trip), but end up doing much less sightseeing and much more snuggling. Can be related to getting snowed in, but the spontaneity is nice too.
What are some good GL date ideas?
It depends on what your characters like, really. Do they have any particular interests?
Hmm the question is more directed in a general sense, so maybe the baseline is like maybe two adults who have steady jobs and not that much free time these days for hobbies or big interests.
You could also try out sword fighting for a day. Who doesn't want to be a sword lesbian?
Wow, the more you know. Nuzzling had always been one of my favorite displays of affection. This pleases me greatly.Here I thought nose-kissing and nuzzling just invited ‘cute!’ feelings and lovey-dovey twitterpating.
Never would have thought of it as ‘particularly erogenous’ to the touch. Scent-wise absolutely! But nose touching just sounds ticklish.
Literarily speaking though, the image of a nose-nom is incredibly cute, so long as it’s ‘top of nose’ to ‘tip’, because there’s no way to make ‘nostril play’ sexy.
In terms of your prompt, I think the prompt submitter specifically wants traditional smut aimed at women, essentially. Think shoujo/josei, but smutty.@Moonpearl how to differentiate between female-gaze and male-gaze yuri sex scene (for futaxfem, futaxfuta, and f/f)?
Thank you for your explanation, it's very insightful. But can female-aimed smut also involve something like rough sex, kinky stuff like BDSM or humiliation play or something like that, I wonder?For female-orientated/female-gaze smut, you have, well... The perspective of a woman. Probably easier if it's the fem in a futa/fem situation, but in a situation where a futa is also a woman, that can work too.
This means at least a focus on female pleasure and what that pleasure feels like, but a lot of traditional smut also includes pleasure for the other partner too.
There's usually also a lot of focus on emotions and relationship dynamics. It doesn't necessarily have to be love and sappiness (although I believe your prompt specifically calls for this), but a lot of the spiciness of this kind of smut comes from the thrill of the connection between the people having sex.
It is certainly hard to find some in SH or WN (I mainly consume my fic from these two platforms), but you can see a decent amount of them in AO3, where the fem is like "I find her manhood is wonderful but..." and fall for the futa for their personality (kind, sincere, domineering, caring, etc.) instead, but this also possess a problem where it sometimes had nothing to do with her "futaness" at all.On that note, something I don't think I've ever seen in futa/fem (I think mostly because I rarely to never encounter female-aimed smut of this type) is the fem's reasons for finding the futa attractive. It usually boils down to, "has huge dick, yum".
...The problem is that you're conflating two different topics together.But, I can't be sure whether this fic is male-aimed or female-aimed even after reading your explanation.
People of any gender can have a fetish.But can female-aimed smut also involve something like rough sex, kinky stuff like BDSM or humiliation play or something like that, I wonder?
If you're really worried about failing to pull it off, you could try getting beta readers to advise you. Just remember that they'll be giving you that advice based on their own experience, just as you'll be writing based on your experience. There's no 'right' or 'wrong' answers. Just ones that match your intent, and ones that don't.Uurgh... it sounds difficult, but still, I want to try writing in this kind of style at least once. Though, I'm kinda afraid too, that I'm going to royally mess up, and it'll turn out to be a total disaster...
It can. Women can also like BDSM and, for better or worse, 50 Shades of Grey does exist. But, like all smut and kink fic, it should be marked with proper warning for what's going to be included.Thank you for your explanation, it's very insightful. But can female-aimed smut also involve something like rough sex, kinky stuff like BDSM or humiliation play or something like that, I wonder?
Uurgh... it sounds difficult, but still, I want to try writing in this kind of style at least once. Though, I'm kinda afraid too, that I'm going to royally mess up, and it'll turn out to be a total disaster...
Ooh, that's interesting~!It is certainly hard to find some in SH or WN (I mainly consume my fic from these two platforms), but you can see a decent amount of them in AO3, where the fem is like "I find her manhood is wonderful but..." and fall for the futa for their personality (kind, sincere, domineering, caring, etc.) instead, but this also possess a problem where it sometimes had nothing to do with her "futaness" at all.
One such I've ever read was Beast of Lust by SexulPenut. Though all the smut scenes are always in a similar pattern —started with non-con and then developed into dub-con and then the two character fall in love with each other— but it also voices a lot of inner struggle (especially fem), making it not only about action but also thought and emotion. But, I can't be sure whether this fic is male-aimed or female-aimed even after reading your explanation. Maybe hybrid?
Thank you for your good advice and input!If you're really worried about failing to pull it off, you could try getting beta readers to advise you. Just remember that they'll be giving you that advice based on their own experience, just as you'll be writing based on your experience. There's no 'right' or 'wrong' answers. Just ones that match your intent, and ones that don't.
For example, this comment definitely doesn't fully explain my thoughts on this matter. But I can't really improve it without feedback, so... Now you're reading it.