Depends how you wanna score it. Ik theres homemaker and breadwinner. Breadwinner can argue they support fam thru their work and bring food to table which is true, but homemaker helps take from teaching, encouragement, chores, etc.
Many ways to split 50-50 and lot of times its not straight 50-50. It just depends on relationships. You take work, I take care kids. Or We both work, and we take care kids.
[/SPOILER] think some females have a chip on their shoulders about childcare after seeing their mothers doing all the work and receiving zero respect for it. However, it is an occupation.
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There are some truths to it, esp for some. Sometimes ppl will rub you being out of touch with the world and stuff if you stay at home. Sometimes people will think they are the ones who should be credited with stuff only bc they're the breadwinners and you don't really do much. Sometimes ppl are jealous thinking you got so much free time (when unless you're like those tv housewives, no). And what if there's too much dependence on someone that turns out who they're not to be but then you can't really go anywhere since they're pretty much all fin support?
This can go for both genders thu. I also heard ppl ridicule a male homemaker just bc they expect males to go work. Same ones also jealous female homemaker stay home take care, and think they have so much free time. But the kids love them, bc they always taking care of them, in some ways more closer than person who breadwinner most of time.
If you completely separate and one does work and the other does homemake, just keep a thought the one who works only and doesn't take care of kids may get less bonding with kids. The homemaker may bond and be closer with kids from taking care of em more.