Welp, not every Russians born the same.
But if I'm being serious, I don't want to say bad things about him, and I won't, I can only say that he is a victim of propaganda. Normal Russians hate both westerners and Russia for certain reasons. Westerners for continuing to sponsor Russian oligarchs and army, for selling gear for suppresing riots and many more reasons. Perhpas the most important reason is that you can't enter many European countries if you are a simple Russian. If you are a pacifist and you are fleeing from being drafted, the amount of countries willing to provide shelter is constantly shrinking. All while Russian oligarchs, politicians, their children, and other people who actively support the war with their money and publicity live in Europe or USA.
They hate Russia for obvious reasons. Instead of developing the country, they develop their pockets. The biggest example, if the army REALLY were as strong as government claimed(they claimed it was as strong as murica's army), do you really think Ukraine would've not been already conquered? Even vanity projects are left rotting. Defending your country when it fucks up =\= being a patriot.