Then, you’re gonna be called a perverted XXX at the start of the story!
Though, I don’t see that happening, since men’s and women’s role are different, especially in Japan, if you know what I mean~
And you and I have the same school of thought! So that’s something…
I also completely understand what you mean when you said you can’t project yourself into the male lead. Sometime, I watch a shoujo anime and end up projecting myself as the female protagonist’s love interest, instead. But if it’s a reverse-harem, I don’t like it at all for obvious reason.
Also, do your best with your new project! Thanks me later~