I dunno, I like cock. The word! I don't want to read about manhoods if they're throbbing, pulsating, or doing anything other than hanging there frankly. Don't like dick. It gets worse when the author starts on about 'honeyed love tunnels' and idk...can't take it seriously. It's a fine line between turning your reader on and making them spew their drink all over the page.
I think people should stop using the word 'devoid'. The room was devoid of light - dark, then, was it? The snowy landscape was devoid of warmth - nah, it's just cold. The cupboard was devoid of food = EMPTY!! FFS STOP IT!!!!