Except, thought leads to action. I'm not saying that we shouldn't have bad thoughts, that's impossible. But, what I am saying is that if we can help it, if we can recognize that certain thoughts are bad, we should call them out, we should help the person see that those thoughts are bad, that those prejudices are bad.
Unless you think that everyone with bad thoughts has the mentality of a child, and just can't help themselves from having racist thoughts. Honestly, on this forum, or at least this thread, I wouldn't blame you for thinking that.
But, I genuinely believe that we CAN and SHOULD strive to be better, not accept that we'll always be assholes, not accept that we can't improve. That mentality has hurt me so many times, but, I don't want to give up on it. I want everyone to be better, to strive for improvement in any way they can.
Do you really want to fight against that?
You know, you sound kind of strange. I've read your messages and they are fool of loopholes. And the biggest one is how you are forcing to everyone your, own, vision on what being racist is. As I don't live in an English speaking country, the definition of the word "racism" didn't change in my native language, basically, it is the same as when it was first used. So it's the first big problem here. English speaking people don't know what is racism, because the meaning is always changing, please correct me if I'm wrong.
And that leads to a question I want to ask you. WHO, defines what racism is and what isn't? Is it the majority? The minority? The one who thought of this term first? The scientists? I mean you say we should strive for the better, but WHAT IS better? Who defines it?
I mean, I've never seen or talked to black people and I'm genuinely curious about them, their culture, and so on. And of course, some questions may sound rude, but I have no ill intention, only curiosity. Because I will sound rude towards the people of other skin colors and home countries because I'm curious. And do understand one more thing, I will be curious about a black person only if he is from a different country. Because someone who was born and raised here is the same citizen like me. He was raised in the same country, by the came laws, with the same mentality, and so on, and that means I'm not interested in him. Unless he is an interesting person and I want to make friends with him. I do have a friend who is a Tatar, and I don't give a shit, we are friends because I'm interesting to him and he is to me. And what I'm trying to say is, the race isn't the defining factor. So is curiosity racism?
The people from the post-soviet union countries know what it's like to be forced to expel racism, to bring out equality and equity, and so on. As I live in one such country, I can tell you, that the moment you stop FORCING people, they would start hating each other openly. Not because they suddenly became racist, but because the can do it openly, and those who WERE racist, can go open now. You can't change a person with a snap of your finger. And you can't force him to do something unless it's brainwashing. And do, believe me, USSR, tried to brainwash people, to the point that it still makes our life here unbearable.
Sure defeating racism is good, but only when you stop using it. I heard those notorious news from the USA, how basically they are using racism to fight against racism. And it will only bring more hate. You can't stop racism unless the whole society changes, and you can't do it by forcing everyone. By the way, by whole society I mean not a few countries like everyone else does but the whole world. It's a gradual process. The best thing you can do is keep level headed and stop being a jerk yourself, have two or three kids and teach them that racism isn't good. That's how slowly but surely the population would change, and better people would be raised. But you shouldn't interrogate grown-up men and women if they had a wrong thought or looked at someone differently. Forcing someone would only bring more hate from the passive people while fanning the flames of those ones that were already haters.